Inspired by writers such as Alice Walker and Toni Morrison, Bernice L. McFadden has written critically acclaimed novels, including Sugar, Gathering of Waters, and Glorious. She has received numerous awards. McFadden now shares her journey with her memoir Firstborn Girls. This engaging story begins in September 1967 when McFadden and her mother, Vivian, were involved in a horrendous car accident. While they both survived, it had a profound and lasting effect on McFadden. She believes their survival was aided by the voices of her ancestors, dating as far back as the days of slavery, whom she calls angelcestors. This connection to her predecessors became a guiding light for her.
Growing up, McFadden witnessed her beloved mother endure years of abuse from her alcoholic father. Most women in her family experienced difficult relationships with the men in their lives. Out-of-wedlock pregnancies were present across generations. From her youth to adulthood, reports of riots and violence continually reminded her of the country's racial injustice. When McFadden began writing stories as a young girl, she knew where her future was headed. Learning about other Black women writers made her dream feel attainable.
This powerful book is about family, especially daughters, love, and resilience. While some challenges are universal, many are unique to Black families. As a white woman, I felt I was given special entry into McFadden's world. This love letter to her family, past and present, will stay with me.
Many thanks to Dutton Books for inviting me to be an early reader.
Rated 4.5 out of 5 stars.
Memoir | Nonfiction.
Publication Date: March 4, 2025.
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